I just want to say that it is perfectly fine and valid to not have a good relationship with your mother (or with your family for that matter). And it is okay to not fall into the pressure to act like your mom is the best thing in the world, to get her a gift, to post a picture with her online, to wish her a happy Mother’s Day. You are valid and do not need to act a certain way or treat someone who hurts you a certain way. You are seen and you are loved. That is all.